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"It is deeply unrealistic to imagine that you can avoid stigmatizing one third of America’s children while at the same time telling them that their bodies are pathological and diseased and that they ought to be changed through these kinds of lifestyle interventions."

-Paul Campos

Best Week

This week has been great, I finished all of my finals and am going to visit my dad in Tampa, Florida on Sunday. On top of that, my old job has come crawling back asking me to help them out with some freelance graphic jobs. Since I am leaving in two days I might just tell them thanks but no thanks with that. It is surprisingly fulfilling to know that they are having issues getting projects done without me there.

I'll post pictures from my trip when I get back!

Also anyone in the Detroit area, that wants to see John Mayer on July 17th at the Palace of Auburn Hills let me know, I have row 17 section A seats 1 and 2 for sale face value at $138.90
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Oh Rosie

I cannot say that I agree with everything she says, but I agree with everything she stands for, a non-stereotypical beauty that actually has the platform to stand up for what she believes, in the face of people who know nothing about her. She is what women today are told not to be, so that they can be successful, and unlike what Donald Trump has said, she is. Everyday we are told that to have a healthy life we must conform to such unrealistic ideals that we find our self in a never ending cycle of self hate. That to be sexy we must be a size 2 and having an opinion without holding it back makes us a bitch.

I struggle with the idea that looks make a woman more successful than determination and intelligence. Although I am a firm believer that we make our own destiny, by being educated, outgoing and determined, there is only so much we can do, when bias feelings towards certain people are a real thing that happens every day. I hope one day this will not be an issue, but for now, I’ll make sure I am ready for whatever comes my way.

So thank you, for being who you are no matter what comes at you. For not falling into the Hollywood female warp that most women are told they must do to make it. For being beautiful, strong, intelligent, and successful without giving into so many pressures that our society pushes upon us. But above all else, thank you for having an opinion and not being scared about what people might say.

Who knows what could happen if we actually thought about the world around us, instead of letting it think for us.

One day, this 21 year old college student will take you out to lunch, where we can talk about everything.
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